I’ve spent years helping organizations understand something that might seem counterintuitive: the best way to protect yourself from lawsuits isn’t to build higher walls or hire more lawyers. It’s to recognize that when someone comes to you with a complaint, they’re often already traumatized—and how you respond in those first critical moments can determine whether you’re headed for partnership or the courthouse.
What Trauma-Informed Policies Really Means in Your Organization
Trauma-informed policies don’t mean you have to pamper everyone who makes a complaint, believe everything happened exactly as they describe, or automatically take the side of anyone who claims they’ve suffered an injustice. It means starting with an understanding of how trauma affects people.
Trauma can change the way people process information and how they communicate. It can shut down or amplify emotional reactions, which in turn may alter how you perceive their credibility. When someone has experienced workplace harassment, discrimination, or even personal trauma outside of work, their ability to navigate your complaint process is deeply affected.
I’ve seen this repeatedly in my practice. Someone comes forward with a concern, and because they can’t articulate it the way you expect—maybe they’re emotional, maybe they seem withdrawn, maybe their timeline doesn’t make perfect sense—they get dismissed as unstable or uncooperative. What you’re actually seeing are normal trauma responses that have nothing to do with the validity of their complaint.
How Trauma Shapes Every Interaction
When someone reports a problem to you, they’re not just sharing information. They’re taking an enormous risk. The fear of retaliation, disbelief, or having their experiences dismissed can make it nearly impossible for them to communicate clearly.
Here’s what I’ve learned from representing traumatized clients: trauma affects memory, emotional regulation, and communication in predictable ways. Someone might remember vivid sensory details but struggle to place events in chronological order. They might appear overly emotional during interviews, or conversely, seem detached and unengaged. These aren’t signs of dishonesty—they’re signs that something significant happened to them.

When you misinterpret these responses, you’re not just mishandling a complaint. You’re setting yourself up for escalation that could have been entirely avoided.
The Real Benefits of Getting This Right
By reforming your investigative process from a defensive one that sets out to disprove the claim to a trauma-informed response through every stage, you increase the chances that those making reports feel heard. The results speak for themselves:
You will be less likely to be sued. When people feel heard and treated fairly, they are far less likely to take further action, go public, or see an attorney. They are often satisfied just to be heard, their suffering acknowledged, and the problem corrected.
Your perceived sensitivity is likely to mitigate damages. If there is a lawsuit, the more you can demonstrate that you’ve treated the plaintiff fairly and humanely, the better the outcome for your organization.
The conflict is less likely to play out in the press. Nobody wants to destroy an organization that genuinely tried to help them.
You’re more likely to identify those in your organization who most threaten you—not by reporting but by causing the problems that prompt the reports.
Your organizational culture is likely to have higher morale because there will be less fear, less secrecy, and fewer rumors swirling around.
The process itself is likely to be less exhausting and draining for everyone involved.
Making the Shift: From Theory to Practice
You might be wondering what it’s going to take to introduce a trauma-informed approach into your institution. The truth is, it requires meaningful but manageable shifts in how complaints are processed. These nuanced changes can significantly alter how someone feels they’ve been treated.

Start with training. Everyone who might receive a complaint needs to understand how trauma affects communication and memory. This isn’t about becoming a therapist—it’s about recognizing normal trauma responses so you don’t misinterpret them as signs of dishonesty or instability.
Create multiple reporting channels. People need options. Some feel safer reporting anonymously, others need face-to-face interaction, and still others prefer written submissions. The more ways you give people to come forward, the more likely they are to do so before problems escalate.
Develop clear, compassionate policies. Your complaint handling procedures should outline timelines, confidentiality protocols, and support resources. Most importantly, they should be written in language that prioritizes safety and respect rather than organizational protection.
Follow through consistently. Nothing destroys trust faster than promising support and then failing to deliver. If you say you’ll provide updates, provide them. If you offer resources, make sure they’re actually available and helpful.
The Bottom Line
Understanding the impact of trauma on anyone who has suffered an injury, loss, or harm can go far in protecting your organization from unnecessary lawsuits. In contrast, if you treat a traumatized person badly, withhold information, and fail to clarify their options and the process they must follow, you will likely expose your organization to higher damages.
I’ve said this before, and I’ll say it again: if someone comes to you with a grievance, see it as an opportunity to strengthen your organization, not as a threat to it. When you respond with genuine care and competence, you’re not just preventing litigation—you’re building the kind of workplace culture where problems get solved before they become crises.

The choice is yours. You can continue handling complaints the way you always have and hope for the best. Or you can recognize that a thoughtful, trauma-informed approach makes everyone feel heard, reduces your legal risk, and creates the kind of organization people actually want to work for.
For practical tools to implement these strategies, the Win Win Workbook provides step-by-step guidance for turning these principles into everyday practice.